Genesis 3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee. 17 And unto Adam he said, Because thou hast hearkened unto the voice of thy wife, and hast eaten of the tree, of which I commanded thee, saying, Thou shalt not eat of it: cursed is the ground for thy sake; in sorrow shalt thou eat of it all the days of thy life; 18 Thorns also and thistles shall it bring forth to thee; and thou shalt eat the herb of the field; 19 In the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread, till thou return unto the ground; for out of it wast thou taken: for dust thou art, and unto dust shalt thou return.
It was a commandment of the Lord because of the fall of mankind due to man harkening to the voice of the woman. That is what Paul was talking about in this first epistle to the church at Corinth.
1 Corinthians 14:34 Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law. 35 And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church. 36 What? came the word of God out from you? or came it unto you only? 37 If any man think himself to be a prophet, or spiritual, let him acknowledge that the things that I write unto you are the commandments of the Lord. 38 But if any man be ignorant, let him be ignorant.
Paul says it again in his first letter to Timothy;
1 Timothy 1:9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; 10 But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works. 11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. 12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. 13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve. 14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression. 15 Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.
The only reason this was written " Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety " was to defer from the condemnation cited in verse 14 so as to not let anyone think that women cannot be saved. The task of child bearing is mentioned as a deference from any temptation for women to teach in the assembly.
Granted, as per 1 Corinthians 14:38, if any man be ignorant, or if any woman be ignorant, then let them be ignorant.
I believe it is important to note this as a commandment from the Lord to help those to discern tongues with interpretation as well as interpreting the tongue as something that will NOT HAPPEN to women in the assembly when men are there.
Women are used by the Lord in outward ministry. Make no mistake about that, but it seems clear to me why women are not to teach nor usurp authority over a man in the assembly as a commandment from the Lord.
1 Corinthians 11:1Be ye followers of me, even as I also am of Christ. 2 Now I praise you, brethren, that ye remember me in all things, and keep the ordinances, as I delivered them to you. 3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.
Apparently in a church cited in Revelation, a woman was suffered to teach by whom they were led astray.
Revelation 2:18 And unto the angel of the church in Thyatira write; These things saith the Son of God, who hath his eyes like unto a flame of fire, and his feet are like fine brass; 19 I know thy works, and charity, and service, and faith, and thy patience, and thy works; and the last to be more than the first. 20 Notwithstanding I have a few things against thee, because thou sufferest that woman Jezebel, which calleth herself a prophetess, to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication, and to eat things sacrificed unto idols. 21 And I gave her space to repent of her fornication; and she repented not. 22 Behold, I will cast her into a bed, and them that commit adultery with her into great tribulation, except they repent of their deeds. 23 And I will kill her children with death; and all the churches shall know that I am he which searcheth the reins and hearts: and I will give unto every one of you according to your works. 24 But unto you I say, and unto the rest in Thyatira, as many as have not this doctrine, and which have not known the depths of Satan, as they speak; I will put upon you none other burden. 25 But that which ye have already hold fast till I come.
So would the Holy Spirit manifest tongues, the interpretation of tongues, or even prophesy if the Lord's commandment is for women not to speak nor teach in the assembly?
Then believers today need to discern that tongue for why it is not coming with interpretation and why it comes about by what believers assume was the Holy Spirit coming over them apart from salvation? Because it is not of Him.
2 Corinthians 11:3 But I fear, lest by any means, as the serpent beguiled Eve through his subtilty, so your minds should be corrupted from the simplicity that is in Christ. 4 For if he that cometh preacheth another Jesus, whom we have not preached, or if ye receive another spirit, which ye have not received, or another gospel, which ye have not accepted, ye might well bear with him.
1 Timothy 4:Now the Spirit speaketh expressly, that in the latter times some shall depart from the faith, giving heed to seducing spirits, and doctrines of devils; 2 Speaking lies in hypocrisy; having their conscience seared with a hot iron;
2 Corinthians 13:5 Examine yourselves, whether ye be in the faith; prove your own selves. Know ye not your own selves, how that Jesus Christ is in you, except ye be reprobates?
1 John 4:1 Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world. 2 Hereby know ye the Spirit of God: Every spirit that confesseth that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh is of God: 3 And every spirit that confesseth not that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh is not of God: and this is that spirit of antichrist, whereof ye have heard that it should come; and even now already is it in the world. 4 Ye are of God, little children, and have overcome them: because greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world. 5 They are of the world: therefore speak they of the world, and the world heareth them. 6 We are of God: he that knoweth God heareth us; he that is not of God heareth not us. Hereby know we the spirit of truth, and the spirit of error.
Isaiah 8:19 And when they shall say unto you, Seek unto them that have familiar spirits, and unto wizards that peep, and that mutter: should not a people seek unto their God? for the living to the dead?
1 Corinthians 14:20 Brethren, be not children in understanding: howbeit in malice be ye children, but in understanding be men. 21 In the law it is written, With men of other tongues and other lips will I speak unto this people; and yet for all that will they not hear me, saith the Lord. 22 Wherefore tongues are for a sign, not to them that believe, but to them that believe not: but prophesying serveth not for them that believe not, but for them which believe.
Tongues are for God in speaking unto the people; it was never to serve as a sign to already saved believers in voicing another calling by seeking to receive what they believe was the Holy Spirit coming into the worship place after a sensational sign in the flesh as if receiving Him again when in according to our faith, He forever indwells in us so we can know that was NOT the Holy Spirit coming over us by a sign as standing apart from the calling of the gospel when we were saved.
2 Thessalonians 2:13 But we are bound to give thanks alway to God for you, brethren beloved of the Lord, because God hath from the beginning chosen you to salvation through sanctification of the Spirit and belief of the truth: 14 Whereunto he called you by our gospel, to the obtaining of the glory of our Lord Jesus Christ. 15 Therefore, brethren, stand fast, and hold the traditions which ye have been taught, whether by word, or our epistle.
Ephesians 4:4 There is one body, and one Spirit, even as ye are called in one hope of your calling; 5 One Lord, one faith, one baptism, 6 One God and Father of all, who is above all, and through all, and in you all.
1 Corinthians 12:13 For by one Spirit are we all baptized into one body, whether we be Jews or Gentiles, whether we be bond or free; and have been all made to drink into one Spirit.
All of us are supposed to share in that testimony in those 3 references above and not depart from it as if you can receive the Holy Spirit "again" apart from salvation after a sign; which is another drink of the One Spirit & thus another calling and another gospel.
So those who speak in tongues today need to go before that throne of grace in asking Jesus for help because this is one ignorance that is costing you a line of discernment when women are breaking the commandment by speaking in tongues and thus not being done by the Holy Spirit in them. Either they are faking it to fit in or they do have a supernatural tongue, but it is not of Him but speaking the utter depths of Satan for which they speak as coming without interpretation.
Indeed, you will need to discern the interpretation of tongues because some are winging the interpretation by "getting a feel" for what is being said and interpreting it that way ( as per Joyce Meyers ) which is WHY that tongue is just gibberish and not a language of men for God to speak unto the people by as so many tongue speakers are misled unaware that they do not have the actual God's gift of tongues. May God be peradventuring today to recover some from this snare of teh devil. Seek your edification from the written scripture in the KJV rather than tongues without interpretation as assumed to be used for self edification.
2 Timothy 2:15 Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth. 16 But shun profane and vain babblings: for they will increase unto more ungodliness..........24 And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient, 25 In meekness instructing those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them repentance to the acknowledging of the truth; 26 And that they may recover themselves out of the snare of the devil, who are taken captive by him at his will.