I was previously educated. I understood what you were trying to educate me about.
You search the Scriptures because you think they give you eternal life. But the Scriptures point to me! Yet you refuse to come to me to receive this life. (John 5:39-40)
I have failed you because I have not been successful in my attempt to educate you about your need to move on from the realm of the flesh's Old Covenant 10 Commandments, and to convince you move into the realm of the Spirit's New Covenant of the Spirit. I'm sorry that I've failed you.
For me, abolishing the Ten Commandments does not make one an antinomian, and I have come to the following approach to the matter.
"This is the covenant that I will make with the house of Israel after those days, says the Lord:
I will put my laws in their minds and write them on their hearts, and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. And they shall not teach one another or say to each other, ‘Know the Lord,’ for they shall all know me, from the least of them to the greatest. For I will be merciful toward their iniquities, and I will remember their sins no more.”
In speaking of a new covenant, he has made the first one obsolete, and what is obsolete and growing old will soon disappear." (Heb 8:10-13 NRSVue)
"He was there with the LORD forty days and forty nights; he neither ate bread nor drank water. And he wrote on the tablets
the words of the covenant, the ten commandments." (Exo 34:28 NRSVue)
*This makes it clear that Christ making the Old Covenant obsolete, this verse shows that includes the Ten Commandments.
These New Covenant verses I've used in order to defend the position that the tradition of dividing the Law into Moral, Civil and Ceremonial can be misleading. I've encountered that on the following:
"For he is our peace; in his flesh he has made both into one and has broken down the dividing wall, that is, the hostility between us,
abolishing the law with its commandments and ordinances, that he might create in himself one new humanity in place of the two, thus making peace, and might reconcile both to God in one body through the cross, thus putting to death that hostility through it." Eph 2:14-16 NRSVue
Men of God from past and present who I admire, study and hold dear, say the law abolished was only the civil and ceremonial. I believe the scriptures are quite clear that Christ fulfilled, completed and brought to an end the entire Old Covenant law.
When the Particular Baptists put forth their beliefs in the 1644/1646 First London Confession, they were criticized strongly about the law, and Benjamin Cox wrote an Appendix to the 11646 Confession in which he addressed that criticism -
X. Though we be not now sent to the law as it was in the hand of Moses, to be commanded thereby, yet Christ in His Gospel teacheth and commandeth us to walk in the same way of righteousness and holiness that God by Moses did command the lsraelites to walk in, all the commandments of the Second Table being still delivered unto us by Christ, and all the commandments of the First Table also (as touching the life and spirit of them) in this epitome or brief sum, "Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thine heart, etc.," Matt.22:37,38,39,40; Rom.13:8,9,10.