You said you believe we are known to Christ by our fellowship to Him. In reference to this verse you quoted:
"Not everyone who says to Me, 'Lord, Lord,' shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father in heaven. "
My question to you why these people were not know by God?
As Jesus says in next verse He never knew them.
I stated in my earlier post what it means to be known of God. They failed to meet the requirements. I know you say they were not 'born again' and work to fit everyone into the mold of saved and unsaved. But you believe OSAS so you cannot understand my reasoning anyway.
You believe you are saved but I say unto you that if you do not meet the requirements for salvation in the day of judgement then you too will be one of these who hears the words 'I never knew you'. You will be judged by your works Rom 2:5-11. Your works cannot save you Eph 2:8-9. They can only condemn you as a nonbeliever even though your mouth says you believe and your mind tells you the same. If your works do not show that you believe then you do not believe in Gods opinion.
Lets take a peek at what 'I' imagine judgement day to look like. I know ultimately Jesus himself will do the judging but I wanted to look at it as if it were God the Father:
Man stands before God in his throne and the books are opened. The trial begins:
God: It is time for you to give an account of your life to me. What do you have to say for yourself?
Man: I believe that Jesus Christ is the Son of the Living God and that he died for my sin so that I could be restored to fellowship with you and have eternal life.
God: You believe Jesus is the Son of God?
Man: Yes Sir.
God: What does that mean to you?
Man: It means that he is the Word of God made flesh who dwelt among us and is the righteousness of God manifest in the flesh. He is the King of kings and Lord of lords! Every knee shall bow to him to the glory of the Father.
God: So Jesus is your Lord?
Man: Yes Sir, I love him because he first loved me.
God: In my book it says that you have cast out devils, prophesied and done many other wonderful works.
Man: Yes Sir, As I said I love Jesus.
God: But what about these other things written here that you have done? What do you have to say about them?
Man: Oh those, if you remember I confessed those sins and I know that you are righteous and just to forgive me my sins and cleanse me from all unrighteousness. Your word says that I have an advocate with the father Jesus Christ the Righteous. And it also says that you have lovingly saved me by Grace through faith. That it wasn't of my works or anything I did. I have absolutely no room to boast. Beside all of this I am convinced that there is no good thing in me. When I will to do good, evil is present with me and it isn't me doing it but sin that dwells within me.
God: Have you not read "to whom you yield your selves servants to obey his servants you are?"
Man: Yes,
God: Have you not read "he became author of eternal salvation to all who obey him?
Man: um...yeah.
God: Or "if you do not forgive others their tresspassess neither will your father in heaven forgive yours."?
Man: but....
God: Jesus was sent into the world that whoever would believe in him would not perish but you see faith without works is dead. Jesus was the light of the world. Those who love the light become like the light. They have boldness here before my throne because they walked as he walked. Jesus warned you that if you didn't pick up your cross and deny yourself that you couldn't even be his disciple yet you spent 90% of your time in life dedicated to all of your own pet projects trying to improve the status of your own life. You were given the example of Paul as a follower of Christ who showed you what it looked like to be dead to self and alive unto God yet you determined that his walk was only his role to play and decided not to follow the path laid out for you. It was explained to you that the corruption that is in the world is through human desire and that you could escape that corruption through the knowledge of the one who called you to glory. Jesus told you to turn the other cheek when you were hit and to give to anyone who asks of you. He explained to you that the meek inherit the Earth and that the Kingdom of Heaven belongs to the poor in spirit. He warned you against trusting in uncertain riches and admonished you about looking at women in that way. What do you have to say for yourself?
Man: I throw myself upon your great mercy! I only trust in the blood of Jesus Christ and his finished work upon the cross. I am unworthy to be called your son.
God: Why you call him Lord, Lord and do not the things which he said?
Man: Your law is spiritual but I am carnal sold under sin. For that which I do I allow not: for what I would, that I do not; but what I hate, that I do. Now if I do that I would not, it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me. I serve you with my mind but my flesh gets in the way.
God: Depart from me you worker of iniquity, I never knew you.
I don't want anyone to have to hear that message. Unfortunately most will.
Gary