Here is something to think about, and as this is a what for and what if thread.  
I think God is pretty disgusted with most Churches and with people in general.  They tend to believe what they want to believe, and if a preacher preaches to them what they want to hear, they flock to him in droves.  They listen to him and not God.  It is much easier that way, and it pacifies the sinful mind, makes the excuses you want to hear, and with time it destroys society.  
So if you go to a church like that, and go along with things, God is not going to listen to you.  
So what am I talking about??  Permissiveness mainly, acceptance, and liberal attitudes.  So liberal anything goes.  Do not discipline anyone, or step on any toes, just tolerate all and anything as God is totally love, and we should leave it all up to God. 
Did you ever stop to think that when God says he gave us the power to step on snakes he meant it?? Or did he mean to just make  pet out of that snake and let it bite you?? 
In the real world an example would be a man who walks into a store and kills the clerk , robs the store and so on.  So the world debates about what to do, should they have a trial, if so should the punish the man, and no just wait a moment, we shall send him to counseling and be nice to him.  Then let him out again so he can do this crime again. Then when after some 30 years he is judged to die some church makes up signs and goes and marches up and down in front of the prison demanding he have another chance. 
I use that as an example, it is the best one I can think of, toleration destroys society, and burdens it with expense and taxes and leaves little in the way of appreciation for God.  They have allowed themselves to be fooled and become corrupt in the name of love. God is given credit for the reverse of his will. 
I do not agree with very much in modern society, from the above to the toleration of homosexuals in the church and in the military, to many other things, and I really do believe those that to tolerate these things, and go along and become convinced in their hearts it is ok, have left God and followed man. 
My grand kids think I am terrible, why, because around me they are respectful, they do not fuss, they do not mis-behave and I am strict but kind.  It is not ok to sass me, or to tell me I am not going to do that and there is nothing you can do about it because if you do I will run to school and tell teacher and they will throw you in jail.  I do not want to obey you so there.   That make me so sad, I see it in my family, and in the world, total acceptance, all is well, it is total love and leave it to God.  Do not act yourself you are supposed to love. 
Ya know love is doing what is right, to make all in order and harmony. 
That is why God does not listen anymore, he is totally disgusted. 
So if you are so, then God has his ears shut. 
That is why God does not answer, why he does not listen.  God is not harsh but just and fair and the world has left his way for mans way. The church is so far from common sense and Gods way........well it just makes me sad.  But that is why God does not listen. 
Kit