Women who want to be holy, don’t marry men who choose bad women

[Aiden]

I do, I even treat this evil woman kindly. Sadly, no one has ever treated me equally.

That's the part of life I hate. I hate when I'll do anything to be nice to someone and yet I get rude things back. I support a lot of things because it's better to be a good kind human than an ignorant and rude one. I love everyone even if they make mistakes but no one could love me back. except for my girlfriend. She's like the only one who loves me back even if I make a mistake.

 

[Godbehonored]

We are all human and should be treated equally

For that matter, pray for this evil woman as well. She seems to be supportive of LGTB and this kind of sexual perversion indicates there are evil spirits behind her working to seduce man. I already prayed for her.

 

[Godbehonored]

That's the part of life I hate. I hate when I'll do anything to be nice to someone and yet I get rude things back. I support a lot of things because it's better to be a good kind human than an ignorant and rude one. I love everyone even if they make mistakes but no one could love me back. except for my girlfriend. She's like the only one who loves me back even if I make a mistake.

Lol, I have been through this since I graduated college 6 years back. I was slandered at work, lost jobs to slander and was repaid with evil for doing good. This is part of suffering for Christ, and why I have become so bitter and sarcastic.

 

[Aiden]

For that matter, pray for this evil woman as well. She seems to be supportive of LGTB and this kind of sexual perversion indicates there are evil spirits behind her working to seduce man. I already prayed for her.

Again I support everyone I don't care what your sexuality, gender, etc. Everyone deserves love and equality for people on this planet and the Lord himself. Not everyone is a bad person you have to look behind all the bad things to find the good things. don't assume.

 

[Godbehonored]

That's the part of life I hate. I hate when I'll do anything to be nice to someone and yet I get rude things back. I support a lot of things because it's better to be a good kind human than an ignorant and rude one. I love everyone even if they make mistakes but no one could love me back. except for my girlfriend. She's like the only one who loves me back even if I make a mistake.

I’ve been through so much pain in my life from domestic violence, chaotic family environment and whatnots since I was born until now I have PTSD and insomnia is a common theme in my life. If not for God, I would have suicided no less than 10 times.

 

[Aiden]

I’ve been through so much pain in my life from domestic violence, chaotic family environment and whatnots since I was born until now I have PTSD and insomnia is a common theme in my life. If not for God, I would have suicided no less than 10 times.

Yeah, have you tried talking to a therapist about all of this? maybe it'll help.

 

[Godbehonored]

Again I support everyone I don't care what your sexuality, gender, etc. Everyone deserves love and equality for people on this planet and the Lord himself. Not everyone is a bad person you have to look behind all the bad things to find the good things. don't assume.

No. LGTB is evil. God does not support any sexuality outside of man and woman. If you believe in God you cannot support this. There are evil spirits behind these things.

 

[Aiden]

No. LGTB is evil. God does not support any sexuality outside of man and woman. If you believe in God you cannot support this. There are evil spirits behind these things.

I don't like hating people

 

[Godbehonored]

Yeah, have you tried talking to a therapist about all of this? maybe it'll help.

They don’t give permanent solution.

 

[Godbehonored]

I don't like hating people

You are hating people if you allow them to continue in evil and be destroyed by it. Your Christian view is wrong. Hating the sin is not hating the person. Prayers deliver people from evil, I’m asking for you to pray.

 

[Luminary]

So what drove you to choose a narcissist? What appealed to you about that narcissist that you couldn’t see through their evil?

Nothing drove me to them. They came in my life, and i was green or naive to the world. Sheltered through control by my parents. I wanted to be liked(and loved) , and didn’t realize they were narcissistic until later on in the relationship. Or rather I didn’t recognize what it was I was dealing with. My emotions blinded me to what was right in my face but couldn’t accept.. I made made excuses and didn’t love myself enough to stand up for myself.

 

[Aiden]

You are hating people if you allow them to continue in evil and be destroyed by it. Your Christian view is wrong. Hating the sin is not hating the person. Prayers deliver people from evil, I’m asking for you to pray.

People being happy?

 

[Godbehonored]

Nothing drove me to them. They came in my life, and i was green or naive to the world. Sheltered through control by my parents. I wanted to be liked(and loved) , and didn’t realize they were narcissistic until later on in the relationship. Or rather I didn’t recognize what it was I was dealing with. My emotions blinded me to what was right in my face but couldn’t accept.. I made made excuses and didn’t love myself enough to stand up for myself.

You see, the reason I want to know if you are a man is because I want to know what seduction tactics they used against you to blind you to the truth. But you have not included any of that in.

Sharing about those seduction tactics will help a LOT of people out there who don’t know what they are facing.

 

[Aiden]

You see, the reason I want to know if you are a man is because I want to know what seduction tactics they used against you to blind you to the truth. But you have not included any of that in.

Sharing about those seduction tactics will help a LOT of people out there who don’t know what they are facing.

Not all men are bad

 

[Godbehonored]

Nothing drove me to them. They came in my life, and i was green or naive to the world. Sheltered through control by my parents. I wanted to be liked(and loved) , and didn’t realize they were narcissistic until later on in the relationship. Or rather I didn’t recognize what it was I was dealing with. My emotions blinded me to what was right in my face but couldn’t accept.. I made made excuses and didn’t love myself enough to stand up for myself.

As for narcissism there are tons of books out there about spotting the signs. In general, ANYONE who comes on too strong at the start is a narcissist. They show you they like you a LOT, but how can they like you so much when they don’t even know who you are deep down? They don’t know your inner soul, so they can’t really love you. It’s fake, it’s an illusion.

It’s not difficult at all to spot red flags, ANYONE who tries to sell themselves to you, behaving like a salesperson should make you run for the hills.

A healthy relationship is about getting to know each other in an organic manner, over time and is slow and steady. Any relationship that does not follow this pattern is dangerous and toxic.

So I really don’t get it why men (or women) find that they need to know rocket science to know how to choose good partners.

 

[Aiden]

As for narcissism there are tons of books out there about spotting the signs. In general, ANYONE who comes on too strong at the start is a narcissist. They show you they like you a LOT, but how can they like you so much when they don’t even know who you are deep down? They don’t know your inner soul, so they can’t really love you. It’s fake, it’s an illusion.

It’s not difficult at all to spot red flags, ANYONE who tries to sell themselves to you, behaving like a salesperson should make you run for the hills.

A healthy relationship is about getting to know each other in an organic manner, over time and is slow and steady. Any relationship that does not follow this pattern is dangerous and toxic.

So I really don’t get it why men (or women) find that they need to know rocket science to know how to choose good partners.

Again you just gotta find the right person

 

[Godbehonored]

Nothing drove me to them. They came in my life, and i was green or naive to the world. Sheltered through control by my parents. I wanted to be liked(and loved) , and didn’t realize they were narcissistic until later on in the relationship. Or rather I didn’t recognize what it was I was dealing with. My emotions blinded me to what was right in my face but couldn’t accept.. I made made excuses and didn’t love myself enough to stand up for myself.

People who will be good partners don’t need to “promote” themselves. They simply be who they are and people will notice over time.

Narcissists and bad partners need to behave like salespeople and promote themselves as good (whether through words or actions), because they know their true selves are the opposite of what they actively promote. So you will notice that these people will NEVER make an effort to know who YOU are, they are only interested in promoting to the world how good they are on the outside (when they are actually bad inside).

Is it that hard to grasp??

 

[Godbehonored]

No need to figure me out The only case I make, is for Jesus Christ himself. And the healing, transforming power that comes with Him. He literally saved my life from suicide. Only I was disgusted with myself, for allowing the world to abuse me. From my Father, to my Mother, to my partner to “Friends” using me, when there was no one else but me to be around.

I did give up, and in the last moments I was giving for any God to answer, The Name Jesus literally came knocking at my door, in the form of a book, called experiencing God, through a family member, whom I hadn’t seen or talked too, in over a year. Just showed up at the right time. God wasn’t finished with me yet

So there are no altered motives. I am as transparent as I can be with my intentions. If you have questions I will answer them as honest as I can. As I choose to have integrity no matter the medium I communicate through.

Can you speak with me as simply a human?

I’m very sorry for what you have been through. I was born into atheism and was suicidal at the age of 7. So yeah, suicidal thoughts have been a part of my life ever since I had memory.

My family, being godless, was plagued by violence (mostly emotional) and God reached out to me through Jesus at my darkest moment just like He did you. I was close to the point of facing full blown demonic possession. When I did turn to Christ, the violence was directed at me instead. It was a literal spiritual battle of good and evil. I was subjected to violence and emotional abuse most of my early adolescence and adulthood. That does not even include all the pain I get from relationships with men and the other forms of ill-treatment I have faced at work or school.

It should therefore not be surprising that I am bitter. I don’t think you have even been through as much as I did.

 

[Luminary]

For that matter I forgot to mention, men disgust me not only because they choose bad women, they even side with them. Those bad women, in an effort to sabotage my relationships will create drama to paint me in a negative light, sowing absolute lies about me so they can steal those men from me and make men dislike me. Before doing that, they use their female charms to win those braindead men over, so these men believe whatever those Jezebels say. So I’m wronged for doing absolutely nothing, and I have no one on my side. LMAO at those braindead men.

Despite all these, I have never used or purposely hurt those braindead men. I did not turn into black widow and take revenge on them. So I’ve done my part in forgiveness while I’m left ALL ALONE dealing with all the pain and bitterness. So I could care less whether men have extenuating factors that cause them to repeat their patterns. They deserve no empathy from me for siding with evil women to hurt me. I’m not the Savior of the world and have no business in healing anyone.

The only thing I do now is to pray to God to end my life quickly so I don’t have to be consumed/destroyed by bitterness. I will never become a black widow or take revenge but neither do I want to stay here for an extra second. So the way out is death. As much as your posts seem to sound right, I am way beyond repair, getting into any relationship will only blow me up and bring back bad memories that men have left behind. I could care less about healing and just want to die in peace and leave this

For that matter I forgot to mention, men disgust me not only because they choose bad women, they even side with them. Those bad women, in an effort to sabotage my relationships will create drama to paint me in a negative light, sowing absolute lies about me so they can steal those men from me and make men dislike me. Before doing that, they use their female charms to win those braindead men over, so these men believe whatever those Jezebels say. So I’m wronged for doing absolutely nothing, and I have no one on my side. LMAO at those braindead men.

Despite all these, I have never used or purposely hurt those braindead men. I did not turn into black widow and take revenge on them. So I’ve done my part in forgiveness while I’m left ALL ALONE dealing with all the pain and bitterness. So I could care less whether men have extenuating factors that cause them to repeat their patterns. They deserve no empathy from me for siding with evil women to hurt me. I’m not the Savior of the world and have no business in healing anyone.

The only thing I do now is to pray to God to end my life quickly so I don’t have to be consumed/destroyed by bitterness. I will never become a black widow or take revenge but neither do I want to stay here for an extra second. So the way out is death. As much as your posts seem to sound right, I am way beyond repair, getting into any relationship will only blow me up and bring back bad memories that men have left behind. I could care less about healing and just want to die in peace and leave this godforsaken world behind. There’s absolutely nothing for me here.

If you give it a chance, you will find your way. No one is beyond repair. You have to learn to love yourself, before anyone else can. A hard lesson I’ve had to learn myself. Am am still learning. If you don’t love yourself and respect yourself, how can you expect anyone else too?

You don’t need to be the savior of the world to allow healing for yourself. This in turn heals those around you automatically. I’m as sick of this world as you are. But that is not an excuse to give up and beat yourself up because your alone in it. I’ve been alone all my life and has become a blessing, as it’s allowed me to be on the outside looking in. And has given me a whole new perspective on life. One that’s worth living. You just have to give Spirit a chance to show you. It’s important, imho, to stop letting people control the quality of your life by their actions. As you are the only one in control of how you respond.
It’s all in your hands

 

[Godbehonored]

If you give it a chance, you will find your way. No one is beyond repair. You have to learn to love yourself, before anyone else can. A hard lesson I’ve had to learn myself. Am am still learning. If you don’t love yourself and respect yourself, how can you expect anyone else too?

You don’t need to be the savior of the world to allow healing for yourself. This in turn heals those around you automatically. I’m as sick of this world as you are. But that is not an excuse to give up and beat yourself up because your alone in it. I’ve been alone all my life and has become a blessing, as it’s allowed me to be on the outside looking in. And has given me a whole new perspective on life. One that’s worth living. You just have to give Spirit a chance to show you. It’s important, imho, to stop letting people control the quality of your life by their actions. As you are the only one in control of how you respond.
It’s all in your hands

You mean well but I’m leaving this up to God. If He is willing to take me out of this world I’m not staying an extra second here. Don’t worry lol, I won’t commit suicide. My life isn’t my decision.

Ecclesiastes 7:1 NLT
A good reputation is more valuable than costly perfume. And the day you die is better than the day you are born.

If you understand fully what Ecclesiastes is saying you will see where I am coming from.